Most women enjoy kinky sex on some sort of degree. I think that the majority of women like it when a guy spanks them or gently pulls their hair. Anything that makes us feel a little it dirty but still respected as a woman is essential and acceptable.
Make The First Move
Don't expect her to throw herself at you right away. Women like when you make first move. Pick her up and carry her into the bedroom. Throw her onto the bed. Many women feel more turned on when the mood is set. Light some candles, throw on some music, dim the lights, make the bed. These little gestures can make a world of difference in her mood.
Many women are into trying new things in the bedroom. Have an open mind about it. Explore your options together. Who knows, maybe you have a fetish you had no idea about. Many women use toys on themselves. A majority of us like when our partner uses them for us.
Don't Rush It
Women hate when men rush things in the bedroom. You shouldn't be focusing only on your own personal needs. Don't be selfish, and take things slow. Women tend to like slower, more sensual penetration and will often be turned off by rushed sex.
Women love to feel the intimacy that sex brings, especially through eye contact. Pay close attention to the facial expressions she makes. When she likes something, it will be obvious by her reaction. Eye contact is sexy and creates a deeper connection between the both of you. Women like to feel embraced after being intimate. There's something about skin to skin contact that we enjoy. Be sure that she is consoled after the deed is done.
Many women love to be dominated and tossed around a little bit, but we also want to be respected during sex. Always talk about boundaries, safe words, or signals that things have gone too far. Be respectful, always. Women love when their man pays attention to what they like and don't like. If she seems to enjoy a particular thing, take note of that and do it again next time. We want to feel like nothing else matters in that moment other than pleasing us.
Women seriously love foreplay, and lots of it. It's a known fact that women typically take longer to reach an orgasm than men do. Foreplay is key. You want to know that she is fully aroused before jumping into things. Women love to be teased. The reason for that is unknown. It builds up suspense and messes with her mind. Kiss all over her body and whisper in her ear.
Women love communication not only in their real lives, but in their sex life as well. Communicate with her. Tell her how turned on you are and when something feels good. It is super hot for her to hear that. We don't want you to be silent. It's a major buzz kill and bores us. Tell her how sexy she looks. Tell her how good it feels.
Many women love to be dominated in the bedroom by their man. It creates a certain type of fantasy that becomes an addiction. You never know, maybe she wants to be the one doing the dominating every once and awhile. Go with it. Playing these roles can be extremely sexy and satisfying for both of you. Women like when you are rough, but not too rough. Tell her what to do. Throw her around. Show her who's boss.
With our lives being so hectic and busy, it can get in the way of the important things, like our intimacy time. Women want spontaneous sex, which can be hard to accomplish nowadays. Even if it sounds like a total oxymoron, planned spontaneous sex still counts as being spontaneous. Women like to talk to their partner about what they like and what they want. It helps build up the tension to finally unleash on one another when the time is right.